Das Internationale Forum TeX Stack Exchange hatte [einen guten Tip](http://tex.stackexchange.com/a/235707) von  [SoundOfSilence](http://tex.stackexchange.com/users/31729/soundsofsilence) parat. Hier meine daraus angepasste Lösung. DANKE!
    ======== Main.tex==========
    \documentclass[12pt,a4paper]{book}
    \usepackage[utf8]{inputenc}
    \usepackage[german]{babel}
    \newcommand\shortlabelprefix{short}%
    \newcommand\longlabelprefix{long}%
    
    
    \begin{document}
    \newcommand\labelprefix{\shortlabelprefix}%
    \input{kapitel}
    \begin{appendix}
    \newcommand*{\LONGVERSION}{}
    \renewcommand\labelprefix{\longlabelprefix}
    \include{kapitel}
    \end{appendix}
    \end{document}
    
    
    ======== kapitel.tex==========
    \chapter{This is a chapter}\label{\labelprefix::chap:mychapter}
    This is a test with a reference to my chapter \ref{\labelprefix::chap:mychapter}
    \ifdefined\LONGVERSION
    \section{Variant LONG}
    This is a long version of the chapter, which contains a lot of additional information. This shall be placed in the appendix.
    \else
    \section{Variant SHORT}
    This is the short version.
    \fi